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Jun 16, 2026 ∙ 7 min
“But it Was SO Great in the Beginning!”
From Love Bombing to Blowing Up Your Life: A Romance with a Narcissist is Happily Never After. One of the most difficult and painful aspects of being in a narcissistic relationship is the shame a person feels for getting involved with a narcissist in the first place. As tempting as it is to believe that if you learn enough, are educated enough, wary enough, and experienced enough, you cannot be lured into a narcissistic relationship, you would be wrong. Very, very, very wrong. Yet...
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Oct 22, 2025 ∙ 7 min
Words Matter - Using “Narcissist” as a casual insult dilutes the meaning of what is a devastating form of abuse.
In my previous blog - “When Someone Is More Than Difficult: Dealing with a Narcissist” - I differentiate between some of the buzzwords currently in use and explain why “narcissistic” isn’t an appropriate descriptor for every behavior by a jerk that displeases or upsets someone. “Toxic” is another buzzword people use interchangeably with “narcissistic” as a way to quickly label a person who has pissed them off. I admit that I am concerned about people casually using those terms because it...
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Jun 9, 2025 ∙ 6 min
Healing From Narcissistic Abuse
When someone is more than difficult: Dealing with a Narcissist. Parent, Partner, Sibling, Colleague, Lover, Friend… Any relationship can...
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Tracy Brottem, PsyD
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